Putting a loved one in a nursing home is a difficult decision regardless of the circumstances. In the case of Alzheimer’s, most research shows that at some point in the progression of the disease a nursing home becomes the right decision for the family in Brookside. According to the US Department of Health and Human Services, there are nearly 2 million people currently living in some form of nursing home. Over 90% of these residents are over 65 years old and most require 24 hour supervision due to some physical limitation or dementia.
Caring For Alzheimer's - Take Care of Yourself, Too!
Alzheimer’s disease is an extremely sad and difficult condition to work with. This disease is very difficult on the family members in Brookside. Just thinking that as the days slip by your aging loved one will soon become more and more distant. This can be very depressing and an emotional time for most family caregivers. Besides the common emotion of depression, most family members often feel angry, frustrated, and even at a loss for words.
Alzheimer's Disease robs its victims of many of life's most important things and leaves the one suffering with the disease in an extremely vulnerable position. The inability to protect themselves must then fall on the shoulders of someone the victim trusts. For that reason it is imperative that those responsible for the care of Alzheimer's victims be very aware of every possible threat their loved one might face. Recognizing most of the risks will be easy, but others are not so obvious.
During our journey into Alzheimer's we have learned some of the greatest risks come from the most unexpected places, including from within the family of the one suffering with the disease. This is an unfortunate and even disturbing reality that most of us don't want to believe. Wishing it were not true does not make the reality less true.
Our experiences have revealed that families behaving badly are sometimes more common than families behaving well when money is involved. So how can you protect your loved one in these circumstances? Here are several suggestions.
Our loved one's condition deteriorated quickly and she was diagnosed with Alzheimer's shortly thereafter. Once we realized what had happened with the money we confronted the relative. At that time he insisted that the money was a gift. She was still able to say that it was her money, but there was no legal recourse to force him to return it to her.
Do you know how much Alzheimer's care costs? That money should have been used for her care. Instead the relative used it for his personal pleasure. Did we ever imagine he would take advantage of our loved one in such a way? Absolutely not, but he did and the money is gone.
Do not think something like this could not happen to your loved one, too. It's ugly, but it happens. Learn from the experiences of others. Be proactive, not reactive, to protect your loved one with Alzheimer's. As an Alzheimer's caregiver, it is an important part of your job.
How to Find the Best Live in Personal Care Agencies in Brookside,Morris County?
Sometimes it is difficult to identify needed community resources to help with an elderly person's care. Professionals in related fields may find that caregiving resources grow and change quickly, and it can be difficult to keep up with these changes. Family members are even more confused as they try to discover and then access appropriate resources. Some of the confusion comes from not knowing what types of resources to research, and what payor sources are required.
A. Older Adult Services: The Big Picture
The "backbone" of community services for the elderly has been the Administration on Aging funded federal Title XX services for older adults authorized by the Older Americans Act.. The Older Americans Act, was initially passed in 1965, and reauthorized most recently in 2011. It establishes the federal Administration on Aging to oversee and fund older adult services. The law provides the policies, defines the services, and describes the funding parameters for older adults in every U.S. state and territory.
In 1973-1974, the federal Administration on Aging established Area Agencies on Aging and funding for social services for older adults through the states. In the early 1980s, the Administration on Aging was involved in nursing home reform through an omnibus reconciliation act. And, later, it dealt with the growing demand for and regulation of caregivers, discrimination against the elderly and elder rights.
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